Yes yes yes to reclamation of pleasure for ourselves. I am also so annoyed with other educators that dismiss or disparage vibes… they are simply a tool in our erotic toolkit to give us access to deeper pleasure. This is especially powerful as my orgasm threshold seems to waver these days of perimenopausal hormone chaos (even with my hormones, I notice fluctuations). Vibe onwards, beautiful! 💓
This was a great read, and I agree that more folks should take the time to reclaim their pleasure, explore themselves, and relay that to partners for better sexual engagement. Yes, AND I know people with vaginas who have absolutely become desensitized physically because of the extent of their vibrator use. Not only do some become desensitized, but there are also some who literally cannot reach climax with any other method they've tried, skill and exploration be damned.
1. That is not the same as desensitization and 2. All evidence says it’s scientifically impossible so there may be something else there that you are not privvy to, like complex trauma.
Yes yes yes to reclamation of pleasure for ourselves. I am also so annoyed with other educators that dismiss or disparage vibes… they are simply a tool in our erotic toolkit to give us access to deeper pleasure. This is especially powerful as my orgasm threshold seems to waver these days of perimenopausal hormone chaos (even with my hormones, I notice fluctuations). Vibe onwards, beautiful! 💓
I appreciate U entering perimenopause into the chat 🙏🏾
This was a great read, and I agree that more folks should take the time to reclaim their pleasure, explore themselves, and relay that to partners for better sexual engagement. Yes, AND I know people with vaginas who have absolutely become desensitized physically because of the extent of their vibrator use. Not only do some become desensitized, but there are also some who literally cannot reach climax with any other method they've tried, skill and exploration be damned.
1. That is not the same as desensitization and 2. All evidence says it’s scientifically impossible so there may be something else there that you are not privvy to, like complex trauma.
Also, thanks for reading though. I got so excited about your comment I forgot my damn manners ❤️🙏🏾
No worries :)